Big Screen Romance

Love Stories;

In the end love is all were ever worried about.

When were single, were are looking for prince charming.

When we have found him we are doing everything in our

power to keep him.

But no matter how hard we try our love

never measures up to the love on screen, 

in movies.

Subconsciously we have made ourselves believe that 

we need a big screen romance in our lives 

in order to call it true love.

This is nonsense.

There is no such thing.

The writers of these movies, and even novels

do not even live these "so called " love lives.

They are movies, fiction, books

for us to read, fall in love with their love story.

Suck you in and leave you wanting more

so that you will go see the movie again, buy it when it comes

out on DVD or vise verse with a book.

Details.

Most of these movies we as, hopeless romantic woman-

wish our lives could be are not what we want at all.

For example take any Nicholas Sparks story , 

I am a huge fan so it is not that I am bashing his work..

I am just being realistic here, its what writers do.

All of Nicholas story's are set on or near a beach, the perfect

romance setting. Less than half of Americana's actually live on the beach.

Most of his stories require the main character to commit 

adultery. Do you really want that for yourself?

Then again what kind of ratings would a movie or book get

if it described the perfect, faithful marriage the bible instructs us to have..

it wouldn't probably even receive one star.

Which is sad, to me.

As you all know I am getting married this fall, 

so family is heavy on my mind. & It worries me 

to bring a beautiful, pure, human being

into this messed up world.

I  think the media has

a heavier impact on our lives than we think it does.

I am a huge believe in the law of attraction.

which basically means, you get what you put out. 

So by watching these types of love stories, these

are the situations we are creating for ourselves.

Adultery, Lust, Lies.

I think people get so caught up in the chemistry and

feelings of the characters and forget that they are actors.

Their love is not real. It is written and well acted out.

I myself am one of these people, so I am right

there with you fighting this battle.

If your able to read between the lines you would have realized by now, 

this blog is deeper than a love story on screen.

More than the notebook or any lifetime movie.

Its about creating a life of your own.

Not basing it on someone else or something

you've seen in a movie.

It's about making your own path and not following.

It is another step to being happy,

& letting what is meant to be, be.

Not forcing the wrong puzzle pieces 

where they are not supposed to be,

because in the end- they always shatter apart from all the 

tension, once released.